upgrade to electron v16 and node v16

src/services/window.js

@@ -59,7 +59,6 @@ async function createMainWindow() {
         height: mainWindowState.height,
         title: 'Trilium Notes',
         webPreferences: {
-            enableRemoteModule: true,
             nodeIntegration: true,
             contextIsolation: false,
             spellcheck: spellcheckEnabled
@@ -76,6 +75,8 @@ async function createMainWindow() {
 
     const {webContents} = mainWindow;
 
+    require("@electron/remote/main").enable(webContents);
+
     webContents.on('new-window', (e, url) => {
         if (url !== webContents.getURL()) {
             e.preventDefault();